The Patterns in life

If you go in one direction and things are not working out for you then perhaps a change of direction is required. Oblique changes can be more effective when life gets difficult and where it includes interactions with other people. My past is influencing my present and without doubt will shine through in my future………as examples…...if my past life consisted of being part of a repressed religious group, then my present will be coloured accordingly but my future can be amended now…………..my past in slavery is my current battle with racism, how might I change that future. As a man getting bad press these days, how might I change my attitude towards women?  I want no parallels in my future no right angles to the same old path I want change……..it might well be acute showing a perception that I know where I am going and have insights that might guide me, or even obtuse, annoyingly insensitive or showing a lack of understanding of a situation despite having been here before. Or a sense of being misunderstood.  So knowledge can come through and help guide the future but if no effort is made to understand the position you find yourself in now then change for the better in our futures could be lost. So let the past be your guide as it will be in situations we seem to repeat throughout our lives but not to be proof positive that it cannot be changed. Small changes make brighter futures. Some childhood betrayals seek to form a pattern, a thread throughout our lives but they don’t have to. Take abandonment issues, if you expect to be abandoned over and over again you will be but if you have faith and keep on trying, yes you may well experience abandonment again but eventually that pattern will change if you can just bring yourself to believe it. Do we seek out more betrayal whilst we work through this pattern, only to look back and feel… abandoned. It's a pattern that needs you to drop a few stitches and change it. What comes up for you over and over again? Can you see a pattern that you might be able to change. Do it now and remember fear and past expectations hold you back more than anything else……..who knew triangles guided our world so much x